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Grandparenting Rights in Michigan: Understanding Your Role and Options
The Special Bond Between Grandparents and Grandchildren
Grandparents often hold a very special place in their grandchildren’s lives. They share family stories, provide extra love and support, and create memories that last a lifetime. Most of the time, parents welcome grandparents’ involvement, creating a happy extended family that benefits everyone, especially the children.
But sometimes family relationships hit rough patches. Divorce, arguments between adults, or the death of a parent can disrupt the connection between grandparents and grandchildren. When this happens, grandparents might wonder what rights they have to stay in their grandchildren’s lives.
How Michigan Law Views Grandparenting Time
Michigan’s laws try to balance two important things: the value of grandparent relationships and the rights of parents to make decisions for their children. The law starts with the idea that parents get to decide who spends time with their children. This is actually a constitutional right that parents have in relation to grandparents.
At the same time, Michigan recognizes that grandparents can be very important in children’s lives. So the law creates a limited path for grandparents to ask courts for help in certain situations.
When Grandparents Can Ask for Court-Ordered Time
Under Michigan law, grandparents can only ask a court for time with their grandchildren in specific situations:
- During a divorce or legal separation
- After parents have divorced or legally separated
- When the grandparent’s own child (the parent) has died
- When the child’s parents were never married, live apart, and paternity has been established
- When someone besides the parents has legal custody of the child
- When the grandparent took care of the child like a parent would for at least a year
These rules mean that grandparents usually can’t go to court if the child’s parents are married and living together. The law respects intact families’ decisions about who spends time with their children.
The Legal Hurdle Grandparents Must Overcome
Even when grandparents can file a request with the court, they face a big challenge. They must prove that:
- The parent’s decision to keep the grandparent away is harmful to the child’s mental, physical, or emotional health
- Spending time with the grandparent would be in the child’s best interest
This is a high standard to meet. Courts generally trust that parents know what’s best for their own children. Only when clear evidence shows that a child is being harmed by not seeing a grandparent will the court step in.
Better Ways to Build Relationships
Going to court should really be a last resort. Legal battles can make family tensions worse and rarely lead to the warm relationships that benefit children. Instead, grandparents often find more success by:
- Being respectful: Showing parents that you respect their authority and decisions
- Focusing on the child: Talking about what the child needs rather than your “rights”
- Offering support: Helping parents in practical ways without judgment
- Setting clear expectations: Having honest conversations about visits, gifts, and rules
- Considering family counseling: Working with a professional who can help everyone communicate better
- Making the Most of Limited Time: Scheduling time to see their grandchild during their own adult child’s parenting time.
- Investigating a Guardianship: In some circumstances, a guardianship proceeding is appropriate.
When to Talk to a Lawyer
While trying to work things out directly with parents is usually best, sometimes grandparents might need legal advice, especially if:
- They’ve been completely cut off from grandchildren for no clear reason
- They used to have a close relationship with the grandchild that suddenly stopped
- They’re worried about the child’s safety
- They’ve tried everything to work things out with the parents without success
- They took care of the child for a long time in the past
- The children are at risk in the care of their parents
A family lawyer who knows about grandparenting rights can help you understand your options.
Finding a Positive Path Forward
Children benefit most when the adults in their lives work together. While Michigan law provides some protection for grandparent relationships in certain situations, the healthiest relationships grow from mutual respect and cooperation, rather than court orders.
When grandparents respect parents’ authority and parents recognize the value grandparents bring to children’s lives, everyone wins—especially the children, who gain the security and love of a harmonious extended family.
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